"Life in the College Fence"

Student life

The time of "stepping over"

"Step over..."
For more than 5 years after graduating with a bachelor's degree and working in something that does not suit me at all. found a path that seemed to fit in with himself When I came across a press release on a volunteer website about "Graduate Volunteer" after studying the details over and over again. He decided to step in and become a student of Ajarn Puey as a result of his efforts. In the end, he came to the fence of graduate volunteers. The first thing you get from being a volunteer graduate is to overcome the fear of leaving the same old thing, even if it seems perfect in the eyes of many. But I was confident that I would put the word "happiness" in front of the words "money, honor, and fame" (I can't take an elephant at this moment).

Entering the Sor.Bor. (Office of Graduate Volunteers (Currently, Puey Ungphakorn College of Development, which is an intense period, requires the BOI to be prepared before doing anything. so that every second is not wasted in vain Starting from the beginning, they have to come and prepare before becoming a BO. Come to experience the life and spirit of the BO. as well as 25 generations of friends. Successfully pass this stage, they enter advanced preparation. Starting from the training in various martial books, all teachers are all Martial Masters. There are techniques and techniques that are unique to anyone. It was very fortunate for me to become a disciple. because in my study life It is rare to feel that the learner owns the course. Here, let the students dominate. The teacher is just the one who stalks the game. not much frame But it doesn't mean there are no boundaries. To me this is something new to start learning from scratch, so 3 months seems very short and fast. The tactics had not yet become strong and had to go into battle on the field. Fortunately, before leaving the field All the knowledge that was learned was tried to be practiced. Makes me see many advantages and disadvantages in myself, but for me, it may not be up to date. "I'm going to die with my sword." In life, there are many good fortunes that have happened to me. Since I was fortunate to know volunteer graduates. Fortunately, I passed the exam. Fortunately, my mother complained very little about quitting her job. Fortunately, I came to study and liked it. good luck passing the exam and fortunately to be fielded in the chosen area as number 1   Before going to the area, remember that one of the important duties that must be responsible is "Being a good example to children", which sounds easy but is really difficult, thought long and hard about what to do. Finally got the answer that it's who we are as we are. This is the best. It doesn't have to be good in every aspect, but every aspect that you think is good is consistently good. Take the time and experiences that pass each day as a lesson for a new day. Being with children here is not easy, but over 7 months has taught me that. Working with children requires the following:

1. Knowledge is knowing about children. Whether it's physical and emotional development, interests, food, etc., will guide children in the right direction in various matters.

2. Understand (Understand) must understand what a child is. Each child has a different IQ and EQ. It is important to keep reminding yourself that we were once children.

3. Generous. Open to all opinions, every problem, even if some things seem ridiculous for adults. Because at least it will make the children express themselves and have confidence in themselves. Plus, trust us that we listen to their opinions.

4. Justice: Treat all children equally. in order not to create jealousy This is very difficult. I personally told myself before coming that I would not be particularly close to any child. But then I can't Being destined to some children, it's hard not to be biased about certain things. But he did his best to cause the least amount of jealousy among the children.

5. Patient This last point seems to be the basis of everything. Living with over a hundred children takes a lot of patience. especially special children who lack love and family

In conclusion, I call all this "Kuk Jab" from the first letter of all 5 words "KUG-JP". Every step of the BO that takes a step must always be taken back and reviewed. as to how it affects the surroundings. As of the day I left the field, I realized that I might not reach one of the main goals of the BO. is to learn a lot about the community, but being a child that I experience every day is It was a great lesson that taught me to realize that every passing day Have I crossed over into a good adult?

Being here taught me that if you want to be good in any area, you need to practice a lot. If you keep dreaming that you can do it, it will be difficult to achieve. Especially skills that require practice. For example, if you want to be able to speak English. Even if you can hear it, but if you never open your mouth to speak No matter what nation, it will never be able to speak. I want to know more people. If you don't open yourself up and talk to them first. It's hard for him to come and greet us. Or want a tiger cub if you don't enter the tiger's cave and snatch the cub from the mother tiger? It could only be a dyed cat, anything, anything, anything to do if fear arises. Destroy it and go beyond that fear, because many things that I fear when I come into contact are actually not as scary as I thought. Don't let fear overshadow the good things in life, the past 7 months in the countryside. I've learned more lessons than being in Bangkok for decades. At this point, I've crossed my doubts one step further and asked why Puey had to let his graduates live in the countryside... Because this is a big book that doesn't have an ending.